In my opinion, everybody should make an important decision alone. The first reason is because it can help us not to be dependent with other people. The second reason is because it can train our independence. Moreover, it can also make us more confident with our choice. Everybody should make an important decision alone.
If we always follow the decision from other people, they will ask us for doing something which is not our desire. They can treat us without any cause. We will be their domestic servant. The third reason is because we can choose our ways by ourselves. So it will be easier for undergoing our lives. We can share to our friends and our family about something. They will give good advice for us. Their advice can be our consideration for choosing something.
However, we should be brave for taking a decision about it. The fourth reason is because it can also make us more daring when we should do something. It is important to take a important decision, moreover it is for our survival. The person who can determine our ways is only ourselves, not other people. It is not wrong, if we need some suggestion from other people. Maybe their suggestion can help us to think about our decision. However, eventually, the final decision is in our hand.